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Originally Posted by catonyx
I've not talked about bad dreams at all. I've only had a few and I know why I have them I'm sure. I did have one recently that was awful and made no sense. Not sure I'd waste therapy time on it though.
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My dreams are very informative. I learn a lot from them and right now they seem to be more and more descriptive/telling. It seems to come in waves. Most of the time I want T to know as much as she can so I just read what I wrote and we move on unless it's something we need to spend time on, otherwise it's just used as informative material.
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Originally Posted by stopdog
I have been labeled dismissive/avoidant by the therapist, but I do not think my life would be better if I was not. I think that part rocks. And the therapist has failed/refused to explain how changing that would help with the reason I hired her in the first place. Without that information I have no reason to change something that does not bother me nor that I see any benefit for me in changing.
Of course, the woman has said a couple of times that the fact my life mostly works well for me creates a bit of a hurdle for therapy as I am not desperate enough to buckle under to her whims.
Okay that very last part of the last sentence is my interpretation of what she said.
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My T doesn't express labels, but I often am curious to know. Maybe one day I'll get up the nerve to ask.
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