Jordy -

I would like to please point out to you THE most powerful statement I have EVER read here on PC that you wrote:

"It's hard to share the pain, but it's even harder to carry it alone."

Unbelievable and so true.

I wish I had this "conceptualised". You are so right.

Opening up to your T rather than hiding behind a mask is so important.

I am so glad that you have helped me to see this.

I am sorry that through your pain I am able to gain clarity on mine and what needs to be done.

Take care of yourself and let us know how you go.

Thank you so much for helping me.