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Old Feb 16, 2015, 02:05 PM
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WON'T!!!
 
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Originally Posted by pbutton View Post
Of course you think that part rocks. I also think that part rocks. It's not like being fearful where it is unpleasant or uncomfortable. Dismissiveness is generally about strength and protection. False strength, but strength nonetheless.

Yeah, this. Honestly, I wish I were dismissive-avoidant. I feel so weak and fractured inside. It's so easy for manipulative people to pull me apart.
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At poor peace I sing
To you strangers (though song
Is a burning and crested act,
The fire of birds in
The world's turning wood,
For my sawn, splay sounds,)
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Dylan Thomas, Author's Prologue
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