I went in dealing with one issue and then realized how much that one affected EVERYTHING in my life. I guess like the onion analogy of peeling back layer after layer and finding more.
My friends have mentioned how much I've changed and I know I'm much better with my kids. I'm willing to change but didn't realize how hard, painful, sad, etc. it would be. I just want to get better about my time in between sessions and more settled with my relationship with my T. Then, I think it will be a little easier. It has taken so long to trust her.