Finding out if you are pregant is the first step...

I would suggest that if you are that you weigh your decision after you find out....

In my opinion, any decision that you make that is done only to satisfy your boyfriend will lead to much, much pain down the road for you....

One of my son's friends (not my son's baby)........her parents offered her just about everything for her to have an abortion - new cars etc because they believed it was in her best interest not to have a child...

So having viewed the situation from a far, it causes tremendous pain for the person having the abortion if it is done to satisfy someone else's wants.

Adoption is a really good choice... there's even open adoption where you can get pictures and such...