This one includes Social anxiety (I think where the agoraphobics - I am recovering from that, go) Anxiety, Panic and Phobias - Forums at Psych Central

And this one includes avoidant and anti social. http://forums.psychcentral.com/personality-place/

Now I am probably going to obsess about whether I sound like you are in the wrong place. I am not trying to do that. I am not the traffic cop for forums. :/ I just want to make sure you talk to someone else who has better suggestions then I do.

Okay, somebody else that sees everything I did wrong. Fix it please. This mess I made is in your hands.

Okay, perhaps I have done my mistake of over typing today. Trying to be involved. saying to much, over analysing, regret. confusion - throw my hands up.

lol, sharing to help those who understand, we are not perfect, we are human. I did the best I could.

I gotta log out and not let myself come back for awhile (couple days) til I stop freaking about coming off rude and bossy.

:/ I want to be NICE. lol, line from a movie - possible mania rapid thinking setting in.

Ciao