THank you.
SnakeCharmer, your post wasn't THAT bad. I just wasn't sure how I was supposed to perceive it. It seemed supportive, but then I thought maybe you were being sarcastic. That's why I asked for clarification. It's ok.
Crescent moon, AMEN! If she was expecting a call, why couldn't she tell me right from the get go that we might be interrupted? I actually felt uncomfortable about sitting in there in the middle of this personal conversation....had I known it was coming, I'd have gladly asked to excuse myself if the phone rang. It didn't ring. It didn't vibrate. So that told me she'd been watching it...
AllHeart, she only brought her daughter once. She sent me a text saying she'd be late, and that her girl would be with her and I could meet her. Well, we were not introduced, and I was not excited about it.
But when you charge $150 per session.... I would think I ought to hope I get her full attention. Not watching her phone, not thinking about her daughter in the waiting room, etc. Minds wander. But at least ACT like you're involved 100%. I really like this T, and don't want to lose her. But It seems I may need to create some boundaries of my own if we are to continue.
To anyone critical, hey, I'm sorry. None of us REALLY knows one's story.... what we've gone through, what we're still going through, hour our mind processes things, how our thoughts get the better of us. That's why we're IN therapy. I appreciate the feedback very much....thank you.
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