Thanks. Yes, the termination was very unexpected. I realised my T would react upon my opinions but not by terminating me. I expected her to act in a proffessional way, that she would call me or invite me to another session to discuss everything. And that without being judgmental, defensive and showing her dislike which to me is a direct path to termination.
I still just feel kicked out of therapy, the T of course understands the emotional hardship that comes with such a termination and she let it happen anyway. She just created a reason to terminate me out of something I hadn´t even mentioned in my complaint. And now? Is she even bothered by it? How can someone who says they like you act this way, I´ll never understand her.
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Originally Posted by Myrto
Reading this, I understand better your distrust of any new potential therapist.
No wonder if that's how your ex T treated you. Did your termination happen out of the blue for you? From what I'm reading, that's how it sounds like.
I can't offer much more than my sympathy
I know it's hard to believe it, but it will get better.  |