greenpunkergirl.....As i have been viewing this, one question ( the biggest question) is ARE you pregnent or not?? You have continued to avoid the question, and whether your trying to ignore it or not ...the point is you cant ...ok...its going to be hard but you got to do it...take a test.....take two in my opionion....but dont run around in circles before you have to. And if you ARE pregnent.....there is only so much you can do to get the guy involved.....even if you continously say you made this decision with love...because sometimes even if we have a love for a person, they might not feel the same....and before you keep hanging around this loser id ditch him because if he wants no contact than i wouldnt want to put my baby near his incapable hands....ok if your not pregnant ditch his butt...you know his deal...."Once, shame on you, Twice shame on me " Good luck...and HOPEFULLY the next time you post it will be I Am/Am not pregnant...good luck