Hi Wants2befree,
I've tried that with my Mother and my family. All I can do is try to forgive-I'm not in the right place for that while I'm in contact with her. All the work I've progressed has just landslided and now I'll have to start from scratch.
It's like she won't look at me. Why won't she just see me?
She told me when I was a baby she was so busy with the other 4 kids that she use to prop my bottle on a pillow to feed me. I am not mad at her about that but it makes me feel sad and like we never bonded.
Maybe that's why she can't connect with me. I don't know. Do you think?