I met this guy on POF, and we really hit it off, echanged phone numbers, and then moved from texting every night to talking on the phone every night, sometimes twice a day.

We went on a date, and he gave me a long stemmed red rose, for Valentine's Day, and we both seemed to enjoy the evening a lot. He drove me home and we hugged and kissed goodnight. It was a wonderful night.

That was Sunday. He texted me last night, and said he had a great time, and we talked a bit about the weather.

However, he hasn't said a word to me since last night and it's been well over 24 hours. It might be the whole "not getting my hopes up so I don't fall down so hard" thing but I am not really expecting him to text me again. I have been let down a fair bit in the past, so I'm kind of just accepting this as another loss and moving on.

I know this isn't healthy, but I always assume the worst. In these kinds of situations and in other ways. It's like, why bother getting my hopes up? So I aways keep them low.