agree with Patty. is he and his feelings important enough to send them? and send a part of yourself in the package. you can't get around that part. you'll go with the videos. i think i'd put them in the driveway and run over them two or three times and put them in a trash bag for the garbage........just my cranky and sick wisdom coming through bright and clear.........xoxox pat

remember, i heated my sweatlodge rocks with some of the stuff that the ex's girlfriend sent me.......