Licketysplit--we're here for reality checks also. It's illegal and someone needed to point that out.

Gooddolphin--I would be doing you a disservice if I didn't speak up. You've been talking to this person for 3 years? And now you're discussing this person with their friends and family? My concern is for you. You need to take care of yourself first. And yes, our situations were different, my guy was IRL the whole time. (Not being rude here just how it was)