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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Living in regret isn't living, per se. As your post mentioned, unhealthy and you've a desire to move forward. Sorting through what it is about her that drew you to her, may be symbolic of certain qualities, that you maybe able to add to your own persona and perhaps seek out in another, for a relationship.
Hopefully, you're able to establish a more here and now relationship which may help relieve the built up fantasy effect of the girl, from your past.
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Thanks for reading and responding.
Living in regret definitely is not living. I did work on my developing a happier lifestyle with a bit more self-esteem for many years, but maybe it wasn't enough.
I'm currently in Asia right now and I haven't been able to click with the girls here for a relationship. I feel more comfortable being back home in California specifically when it comes to girls.
I also have a problem being way to detached if I try to work on something that is just to different for me. I would eventually do something I would regret so I'm just hanging out with friends here and there while I wait for my time to return to California. Maybe, I can find a girl that could bring me happiness. Hopefully one with stronger symbolic qualities than this girl...