He left *everything* behind -- because the New GF was apparently that important. But don't get me started on how mean he was he left.

I dunno, gals, I wouldn't have it in my anymore to run over them. I would feel just terrible about that.

You won't believe this -- I neatly packed all his good clothing in suitcases for him to pick up when he left me. Then a gf said -- you are nuts -- I'd throw it out on the lawn for him. So I just starting stuffing things in big lawn plastic bags for him to pick up on the covered patio.

Honestly, I don't have that much hate or vengeance in me to have to run over his things. After all, this all happened quite a long time ago.

What Pickle says about listen to your heart makes more sense. Maybe pieces of me will go with the videos, that's why no note, no return address. On the other hand, keeping them or treating them vengefully is keeping his energy a part of my life in negative ways.