Glad I found this thread. I terminated with my ex T last October. It has been hell since and I have contacted her multiple times trying to resume or get some support or some peace and closure.

Last contact was almost 2 months ago. Then I emailed her yesterday to try and arrange a 3-way conversation with another T. She refused and was rather cold.

Then today I saw her driving down a busy road near my house. I was out for a a walk and happened to look into her car (partly becuz I know her car). Incredible coincidence, as I live in a large heavily populated metro area.

Some say everything happens for a reason, but I don't know what to do with this. The timing, the utterly improbable nature of it -- what does it mean???