With my first T I hadn´t been in therapy before and I had no certain expectations. I said to the agency I wanted a woman, I think I also told them I wanted someone with quite a long experience of being a T.

I remembered I talked quite much, I was a bit nervous and I didn´t take in the T that much.

Now, I´ve seen several T:s for evaluation and I have different experiences with them all to some extent, in some ways the experiences are the same. Some T:s have used more or less a questionnaire, I personally don´t like that. Some T:s have talked too much in general terms, about issues in society and such things. That didn´t work for me either.

The T:s I liked have been those who let me talk quite freely but at the same time gives me questions to show me they´re interested in what I tell them. Unfortunately I´ve experienced that some T:s try to seem more generous, more available and less biased than they really are. Therapy is sadly also a business.