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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
What's NC?
Congratulations for your recovering. Perhaps, it's not as much forgiveness as understanding. I think people have to understand why something bad happen to them bc many times they blame themselves for a bad experience.
I go on thinking that the OP needs a conversation with his/her mum.
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Sometimes trying to work on a relationship with a sick person ends up undermining our own recovery efforts. We mostly all want a normal parental relationship, and giving up on that fantasy is very hard, I know. We have to be certain of our own strengths before we wander recklessly in that minefield of family dysfunction!
