Hi everyone! To clarify a few points yes I have successfully began my career working as an accountant for a well known organization. My initial plan was to wait until the wedding was over however the added stress is already taking a toll on my boyfriend and myself. I was actually admitted into the hospital last night and as he was on his way to see me- he himself got admitted at the same hospital! Crazy isn't it! Thank God were both ok it was symptoms of stress that piled up over the years getting to both of us. I would love to have my own apt now however financially it's not possible atleast not for the beginning of this year. My plan was to stay with boyfriend save up and eventually have my own place. I wouldn't want to live with his family forever although they are wonderful people. I am trying to encourage myself to walk out the door, however that feeling of leaving home without parents wishes is getting to me. A lot of my friends have told me that staying here will only affect my health as well as my boyfriend's and right now hospital visits are not necessary. It sucks that I am in a lose lose situation however I know for a fact that love usually conquers.....