I have been with my wife for 30 years and trusted he completely. Over the last few years I have uncovered some deception and lies as she covered up an emotional affair with another man online. Even after I confronted her and she agreed to stop an be totally honest with me I have found her connecting with other men online several times. My best friend, my wife and the mother of my children can't seem to stop the deception and lies. The truth is that there are issues in our relationship that need to be worked on. Some people can and will put in the hard work to make a relationship work, others can't seem to muster the strength. It is not easy to tell who will put in the effort, but I think you need to ask for it and give them a chance. But, you need to be prepared to make difficult decisions when you see the results. I am now wishing I did not ignore the signs early, it is much more difficult after 30 years and two kids.

Good luck!