Hi dorkygirl

When I read your posting it was like I was reading my own. I'm the black sheep too and do not connect with anyone in the family, never have. I understand your going 'no contact', I have contemplated that but I'm not sure I can go the whole way. Instead I have minimum contact. I wonder why I should as they were so abusive including csa. I had major depression for ten years last decade and in hindsight it was due to the csa and other abuses. They never cared that I was depressed either. One day either in this life time or the one thereafter, they will find out how horribly they treated me.

PH