I have been having fun meeting people. I met a 67 year old man who seemed well educated and fun; a 47 year old man who was so gentle and sweet; and a 37 year old man from the Caribbean who seemed larger than life. I had great conversation and was happy with their interest. I had one date with the gentle man. The other two arranged dates with me. The older gentleman put his intentions very plainly. He said he was interested in sex and intimacy before we had even met for our coffee date. I said I had really been interested in having coffee and talking about writing. I am having fun but what am I missing? I am 50, I like making love, but just want coffee right now.