I don't think it is about "believing" it is whatever people mutually agree upon, what they want and what they feel comfortable with etc in a relationship marriage family etc
i haven't met a man who would seriously loved me and didn't want to talk to me daily, or at least check on me, he'd think something happened to me commuting two .hours a day and often in bad weather etc etc
I talk to my brother every few days it is mutually agreed upon, my mom has cancer so now it is daily normally every other day, my daughter and I talk pretty much daily, etcetera
This is mutually agreed upon. Whatever people want to do
This couple clearly doesn't feel the same about communication. She wants more. It is unfair to say "oh I don't talk to people so it should be fine for everyone else. " clearly it is not fine for her so whatever works for someone is irrelevant.
In a long run that is one of the reason people move in together and marry so they can be in each other life daily. Otherwise everyone would just go out and talk once a week. At some point It stops being enough
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