Thanks everyone for the comments I'm going to try to respond to all. But since I'm on my phone it will have to be one at a time. Sorry
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Originally Posted by StokesBill28
I can relate with your situation, I have let myself be take for granted and have compromised my own needs and desires for the sake of my wife and kids. While it would be easy for me to blame my wife, I have come to realize that I need to shoulder some blame as well. I also know that the only variable that I can control is myself, so I sought the help of a therapist and have been making some good progress.
My advice to you before you decide to leave is to look at yourself honestly and own up to your part. Seek some help from a therapist and work on yourself before you decide to leave everything you have worked for.
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I am far from perfect nor do I pretend to be. I have always tried to do what was best for everyone else and put their needs before mine. I've been in and out of therapy for the past 20 plus yrs. And just went back last june. This time last year I gave myself a goal of labor day to leave. Well obviously that's come and went and while I push on Trying My hardest it seems to be of no use.
Thanks again for listening and responding I wish you the best