Freewill, I like your attitude too. Maybe it's the right one. It's not as if he ever asked for this stuff, a keep your eye out for it or anything like that. On the other hand, I made him feel really guilty about leaving me and was in such pain, I was suicidal, which he knew, so it wasn't like he was going to say -- oh, by the way, could you send me those.

But one thing I feel queasy about is that I do not want him to interpret this an invitation to call or anything like that. He broke up with me five days before my birthday, then sent me a Happy Birthday card!!! suggesting that someday we'd be friends. Unh-unh.

So I'm starting to think y'all are right -- I'm just asking to open old wounds perhaps by sending it on.

Liberada, I wouldn't send it COD, but you're right -- I could address it to the gf. But that would seem spiteful, and really, I'm just not at that place anymore.