Well to add to this story. He told me last night that he is having some sort of breakdown. He cried then said a few mean things and in the same sentence said he loved me but failed me. This behavior went on through the night. He said he cant handle things at work anymore. He knows he needs help but cant go get it. I asked if he had some sort of bipolar and he ask who in his family told him that. So i know wondering if he has always had an issues and I'm just seeing it now.

Need advice please.