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Old Feb 19, 2015, 06:28 PM
PaulaS PaulaS is offline
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The thing is that I have no more sessions scheduled with this T. I´ve had the evalution sessions and now I have to decide if I want to proceed into real therapy. So this more or less spontaniously became a kind of test, if she can manage to deal with my opinions or if she gets defensive.

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Originally Posted by lolagrace View Post
Testing people is frought with complications. People have a tendency to fail tests when the tests are pop quizzes and they don't know that the test is even happening. That's not really a test; that's a trap. Why not actually go to session and ask your questions directly? Why the "test" via email? Why not open, straight-forward, direct, conversation with direct questions?