You'll never be done being excited by the thought. But, if wifey wants to move on, you should respect her wishes and discover something new that SHE would like to try, or call it a break on the extra curricular activities. Nuzzle and enjoy each other solo. Nothing wrong with a break. It's hard to take a break if your an obsessive person like me, but it's possible. Take time to reinvent yalls self. Take a breather. Too much of a thing can be toxic. Relax. Former (still is) sex addict.