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Old Feb 20, 2015, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
It would seem a bit more personal in this instance because the therapist used the term negative transference.
Yes, Paulas dodged a bullet here with this T. The counter transference comment was personal (and stupid, I think).

Aside from that it's still important for the OP to realize that there is a part of this scenario - the lack of available appointments or ability to temporarily hold them - that was not personal and is fairly common.