Valentines day sucked for me too. I went for a walk, it was a beautiful evening and the sun was setting over the sea. I have never seen so many couples out. Then I went to get lots of strawberries and a cheesecake for my daughter. I don't even like Valentines. What is helping me is going to meet up groups. There are so many of us lonely alone people around - not on Valentines day at the beach. I am getting lots of hugs from people and dates and offers of sex. I just want hugs and coffee dates right now and to practice speaking to different people. It is really nice when someone is interested in what I have to say, how I look, and has a different take on life. My ex thought he had who I was indexed and programmed and highlighted with all my deficiencies. It was like stepping into an alternate reality speaking to him. There is a nice simple friendly world out there. Come join me.