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Originally Posted by Soccer mom
I totally relate!!! I have a "frienemey" who I just found out goes to my T. I came in highly upset and told my T. every part that bothers me down to being worried she would like this person more. I've worked through it but it's still tough.
It's nice your T. said no. Mine wouldn't have responded either way, I don't think.
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Oh no!!!
I am so sorry. Can you get your frenemy fired as a client?
(Also, how high school are we being right now? LOL!)
But SERIOUSLY, how do you DEAL? I don't know if I could. Just thinking of my foe and my therapist laughing together, sharing inside jokes, all that crap that therapists do to build an alliance, makes me feel ill.
It would feel like being cheated on!
This foe and myself are really different personalities -- she's more upright society laced gloves, and I'm more, eh, redneck irreverent maybe? Which is cool and all but how could any therapist like us both? We're so different!
What makes your frenemy your frenemy?