I literally let it all out with my T. How could she see HER? I don't want them texting, having lunch, laughing, etc. She admitted the frenemy has seen her about the same time but it's really frenemy's daughter. Right when I was leaving, I asked "but you like me more, right?" and she actually nodded, laughed and said yes. She shouldn't have and wouldn't just say it to say it. Believe me, she is very deliberate with her words. That helped a lot. Frenemy and I are very different so, honestly, I think I'm a lot more fun. Frenemy is very serious and always wants to come across knowing everything. T. and I joke around and tease each other. So, I really think it's two different relationships. T. has made me realize frenemy is very insecure, etc.

It was a HORRIBLE melt down when I saw her car there. She is my frenemey because she dropped me after a 2 year good friendship. She tends to do that to others has has dropped another friend after me moving on to more popular people. I now see that we are so different.

And, I have to believe my T. When I unloaded on her, she paused and said "I'm not going to abandon you. Nothing is going to change our relationship. I'm not going to let you push me away and I won't push you away". That helped a lot. I even told her I didn't want to share her with anyone and was mad this person had entered my sacred space (a term from someone on PC). At the end she smiled and said it was a good thing I ran into this person - I said a lot more in that session. I glared back at her. LOL