This "dodge a bullet", I understand itīs an idiom but what does it mean? I think it had some special meaning using it here. Why was the negative transference personal in this specific matter? I ask as I have a hard time understanding this T, she acted like I was some kind of freak she wouldnīt be able to work with.
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Originally Posted by Lauliza
Yes, Paulas dodged a bullet here with this T. The counter transference comment was personal (and stupid, I think).
Aside from that it's still important for the OP to realize that there is a part of this scenario - the lack of available appointments or ability to temporarily hold them - that was not personal and is fairly common.
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