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Old Feb 20, 2015, 07:30 PM
frackfrackfrack frackfrackfrack is offline
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Originally Posted by lunatic soul View Post
I always feel very uncomfortable when someone tells me he likes me or is in love with me when I'm not and I avoid from conversations like that so I can understand that T can feel uncomfortable. It makes me think that he is unexperienced or young t or don;t know how to act so it's always easier to avoid from talking about it.
Yes, I also feel this way, I know exactly what you mean. But the thing is that the first few times I told him about it, he seemed fine. The first time he asked me to describe what I felt like about him and we talked in detail about my feelings, how I would feel if he had sex with me, etc. Another time, I felt it hard to be in his presence with such strong feelings, and he asked me to describe what I felt. That was when I was most explicit - I think I said something like it hurt to look at him and want him so much, that I wanted to be close to him, for him to tell me what he wants sexually and to satisfy him. All of that didn't seem to make him particularly uncomfortable. It is only lately I feel that he became uncomfortable when I mention my feelings. It could be the case that for example, he is more uncomfortable with my feelings being love-like rather than of lust. I don't know.

If it is what you say, then I feel its a bit unfair of him to just avoid like that. As a therapist he should be prepared to hear things. He is somewhat newish, but I know that he has practiced with patients for about 7 years.

Last edited by frackfrackfrack; Feb 20, 2015 at 08:07 PM.