The problem I have with reading your posts is that you have been here less than a month but over 15% of your posts have had to be deleted/"administered" to. If nearly 1 out of every 5 of your posts are "that" bad, how can I trust that I won't read one of those and be upset? It makes it very much like russian roulette for me to read a post of yours? My job is to take care of myself and, consequently, I don't play russian roulette.

I have the "I want to preview my post" box checked so I can't post until I've hit the continue/post button twice. Sometimes I write a scathing reply or type my heart out, anger and vilification dripping from my fangs :-) but it wouldn't occur to me to hit that continue button the second time.

Watch Walt Disney's "Bambi." Like the rabbit, Thumper's, mother said and my stepmother taught me at about the age of 5, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." Practicing that for awhile I found the anger cools a bit and I get out of the habit of responding angrily. Anger's a good thing! But I've never found that hurting or frightening others is a good thing. Figure out how to use your anger to help yourself and others, not to hurt. The rest is just excuses.

One of my favorite Carly Simon verses:

Sorry that your mother dropped you on your head
Maybe her mother dropped her too
In the end we all get dropped
We all get black and blue