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Originally Posted by Jules13
He already broke up with me Friday night. Since Monday, he keeps ignoring me.
My choices are limited...but when he came back in November, he was ready to get counseling...
But he did not because I did not remind him. Now, it hurts so much. I feel so worthless...
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Just take a big step back, maybe he will get in touch when he wants to.. Not really fair to you but you cant force someone to communicate.
Your relationship was on and off alot and the LDR issues, You admit you played emotional games for attention, So really? has this relationship been very healthy for any extended amount of time?
You mention he has some kinda of disorder, but he doesn't want to seek help and you can't force anyone.
It wasn't your job to remind him to get help. Your a gf not his mother.
Break ups hurt, Your not worthless, Don't beat yourself up, Stay busy, hang out with friends... Allow some time to pass so you can look at the entire relationship you had with him..
Maybe he just needs time to do the same thinking.