Actually, the whole story is quite long (it goes back about 25-30 years) - but I'll try to make it as brief as I can....
At that point - yes I have to admit I was a victim of someone elses actions, but I had specifically said IF it MIGHT get anyone else in any trouble at all, I absolutely did not wish to discuss it at all, I was assured that would not happen and that is THE ONLY reason I agreed to say anything at the time...Next thing I know this guy is getting arrested, and police are asking me all kinds of questions...When I refused to answer them - they got there answer anyway (real nice!) - then refusal to testify in court did not keep that from being mentioned either...After that I really never have trusted anyone, so even something like insurance knowing I refused to take some test - especially a psych one - will set me off...BECAUSE I keep thinking about I had said then I do not care if I was the victim, unless it says here I want to forget about it totally, was assured it would, and it did not - now that may be the law - but it was still trickery that got you that info, info the you would not have had if you did not - as far as I am concerned - point blank lie to me.
Now after that, no nothing has been that extreme, and if I think about it, really actually understandable - but I has point blank lied to then....And I guess never really got over that.......In fact being lied to then and still p**ses me off MORE than what that guy did to me....So even something like a test was refused coming out to anyone you kill what trust was there - and it's not much to begin with because of that.........