I do wish you'd lighten up on how your son chooses to wear his hair. He's an artist and artists are known to be exentric. I personally don't see a thing wrong with his hair. He's intelligent, talented and extremely good looking. Wish you'd let it go.
As for that person coming down on you like that, that's totally uncalled for. Plain stupidity, if you ask me! Too bad you can't put THEM on ignore!
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