FKM, I usually agree with your posts, but I was shocked to have read this. I've had experiences with people who have that trait, so I tend to notice it when I see it too....but there was no evidence here of her not seeing her T as a separate individual. Nothing.
The only thing that came close to not seeing another as an individual person is what the 2nd quote below says: "a DBT group would be great for you..."
I mean, how could it possibly be known what's best for Paula? And ive' seen nothing from her indicating that she's even interested in DBT.
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom
Given the sorts of concerns you've raised in your threads, and the twisting and parsing of their responses in order to make them fit your preconceived ideas of their meaning, I don't see a recognition of the T in the room as a separate individual. I suspect Ts are seeing much the same thing. I can't help noticing the same pattern in your responses on your threads: you only "see" responses in the ways that reflect your opinions.
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Originally Posted by Yellowbuggy
I think a DBT group would be great for you, and a T who specializes in personality disorders.
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