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Old Feb 21, 2015, 11:14 AM
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Yes, but I think it's important to note that these behaviors can also be common with highly fearful people or people in a highly anxious state, which doesn't necessarily co-occur with objectification. Someone who felt traumatized, having had a sudden, unilateral severing of a relationship with an attachment figure might be hypervigilant about a Ts intentions, movitations, words, behaviors, and even body language. That's all i'm saying.

On the contrary, it sometimes may simply referred to is "not seeing the forest through the trees." Another behavior common in highly-anxious people.

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The many personal characteristics of Ts that the OP has decided makes them unacceptable, coupled with the persistent and insistent ascribing of singular interpretations onto others' words strike me as objectifying. There's no expression of meaning as negotiable. No room for a T to act autonomously.
Thanks for this!
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