I never said I love him, I don't, I'm in love with him I think because I think about him all the time, I can't wait to see him again, time is fading so fast when we talk, I'm so happy when he calls me. We have similar interests and he said he likes me as a person, he always texts me first.

I think that young people change their gf and bf many times before they found the real one and he has gf and he doesn't live together with her, it doesn't mean he is madly in love with her and even if he is, it doesn't mean he can't fall in love with another girl.
Okay I don't think he is in love with me but it makes me think he is not really in love with his gf too... He doesn't text me anything about sex and stuff like that, he asks me many questions about things in my life etc, I really don;t know why, maybe he is bored and have noone to chat with or maybe he chat with not only me at this time, who knows.
If he wanted both of us he would lie about his gf, he doesn't have any pics of her on facebook just some where she tagged him.
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In bold .. This is where I get confused when you talk of "love" I know there is language differences between us... maybe that is why I can't understand what you mean when you use the word "love"

Yes many people change boyfriends and girlfriends until the find someone they want to stay with. Its always best to end one relationship before starting another one. You know having respect and all that stuff.

I only brought up your relationship or lack there of a romantic one that you so desperately wanted with your T ... I would hate for you to become attached to someone again that is already taken.

Maybe he is just bored and likes to talk to other women, but would you be okay having a boyfriend that spent lots of time texting another girl while you were with him?

Just things you may want to consider.