I am so sorry we have had to be subjected to others pain...others own war in their minds...I do believe we survived for a reason..through us others will learn that we all are in a war, it just some come out alive and others don't even know they are dead...only the strong survive, so when you think you are weak, that is when you are the strongest...pride comes before the fall... great to hear you speak of things that need hearing...so others can know how to listen, without always saying anything.