My partner has BPD, we've been together 2 years now, in the past she use to be violent and has put me in hospital due to injuries on occasion but she seems to have that under control now.. However I am really struggling to deal with the constant name calling and putting me down as a person, usually it starts over something as minor as the toilet roll running out and this will provoke her to call me awful names and tell me I'm a horrible person, and a bad mother, selfish and other really cutting hurtful things.. I thought I had learnt to just take it and not retaliate but it's realy damaging me and I can't stop feeling hurt and worthless! I love her so much because she can be two different people super loving or super mean.. I just don't know how much longer I can cope without her destroying me.. Today she told her son I didn't like him and that o said things (that wasn't true) and I just don't know how that can be fixed I'm heart broken.. I have no support as if I talk to anyone we know or family it starts her off.. I feel so hurt and alone