I think if you have issues with what the moderators or administrators do then you're supposed to take it up with them.

I've been here almost nine years and I don't agree at all with what you've posted. I think you're exaggerating to make your point which I'm not sure of, but I see plenty of disagreement done respectfully. I think the mods and admins are smart enough to decide what is appropriate and not appropriate. I don't own the forum and don't make those decisions and am not concerned about them. I don't invest that much emotion or energy here normally. There are guidelines and rules and those should be followed. If there are issues then let the mods and admins deal with them. That's the best way to deal with frustrations you might have.