I am on the opposite end of a situation like this. My boyfriend was texting another gal all of the time. He kept saying they were just friends and that she had a boyfriend. She would come crying to him all of the time about her boyfriend problems. I told him to stop communicating with her and instead h continued but kept it secret. Long story short, he spent many months playing house with me but texting her until she finally left her boyfriend and then he left me for her. It hurts really bad. If you are a respectable woman you would take a step back.