I do think that it does not matter the amount of threads people make. I emailed my T on and off. I called and got 2 appointments in a week sometimes. I pushed and asked her to be there until just last week I suddenly felt very secure in the fact she would be there and I no longer checked. I haven't even had the urge to email. My point is that sometimes people do a thing 1000 times but it's not until 1001 that they figure out what they need to.
That being said I see no harm with healthy disagreement. People have disagreed with me on threads I made and it helped me 100%. If that is what the OP is looking for, all opinions, then go ahead but sometimes it's not. Sometimes people don't want to be pushed to change, they just want to feel heard and safe. I'm not a T so I won't respond as everyone wants or needs, I can't always offer positive regard but I'll try and reply a helpful way.
Last edited by JaneTennison1; Feb 22, 2015 at 12:46 AM.
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