I have been doing lots of work. And I forgive my father more than my mother. My Father is a physical bully and i can understand that. It is my Mother. She is truly a emotional manipulative monster. She tries it with her grandchildren too. She is like a pesky,
irritating fly buzzing around my head.

Actually, I have tried with her for years. I seriously think it will be a relief when she dies. I know that sounds cold, but I don't think it is. When someone cause that level of emotional turmoil...?

Now she is screwing with her grand kids. That is not OK.