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Old Feb 22, 2015, 05:45 AM
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((hugs)) I went and read your previous thread. I'm sorry to hear this has been affecting you so much.

I've been in a couple situations where people have stopped contacting me online (the flip side). Honestly speaking, you learn to deal with it. She will be fine. Sure she says she is angry. But you did what was best for you. And if she were a true friend of yours, she would want what is also good for you, not just what is good for herself.

A lot of what she said to you sounded like emotional guilt tripping. While that's not to say she didn't need someone there for her, those methods of trying to get you to stay and be her cure/escape sounded dangerously likely to develop into a codependent relationship. She needed to be searching for other more healthy forms of coping.

Try not to blame yourself too much for it. You did the best you could.

If you feel you need someone to talk to about this, feel free to PM me.