I am in a relationship and have been since July last year. It is amazing that it has survived as I have been IP a total of 2 months since then. I lucked out and found an understatnding, caring man. It still amazes me that he has not run for the hill yet. I guess it is all about finding the right person. The relationship is still under stress but managing quite well considering. I have tried to push him away when i am really down but he wont leave me. Maybe he is the crazy one? All I know is that I am one very lucky girl.