Sometimes it seems like there are people who just want "those" posters to go away if they won't take advice or do the "right" thing. They want to squash them and silence them and shut them up or shame them into doing what they think is best. Maybe it is with good intentions, but you know what they say about the road to hell.

Sometimes people need to vent and complain and go on and on until they themselves get to the point of making the changes they need to make. It would be extremely arrogant of me if I thought I had the magic advice to make someone do what I want them to do to get "better" (whatever that means anyway).